Back in the early 1970’s there was a popular television drama about the ‘wife swapping’ activities of couples living in an upmarket neighbourhood in Hertfordshire. Most people remember the series by the infamous ‘key parties’ it portrayed and to this day the media have retained the idea that swapping keys is an integral activity of all swinger parties.Although the drama was fictitious, the Hertfordshire suburb of Carpenters Park, in which the characters lived, is a real place. What is even more interesting is that one of England’s first regular swinger party venues is a house situated just a short distance from Carpenters Park. The good news for anyone into adult dating in Hertfordshire is that this elegant country home, with its indoor pool and extensive grounds, still hosts adult parties today.Hertfordshire borders Greater London to the north and is a major part of the London commuter belt. It has a population of 1,078,400 people living in an area of 634 square miles. This means that on average there are 1,699 people living in every square mile of the county. With its tradition of swinger parties and its proximity to London, this level of population density makes Hertfordshire one of the best places to live for anyone wanting repeatedly successful results from adult dating.Getting an idea of how much adult dating activity takes place in the county can be roughly done by taking a look at the numbers of people who have profiles listing Hertfordshire as their home area showing on the biggest adult dating sites.It is worth noting that it is common practice for many adult dating enthusiasts to register with three or four adult dating clubs at the simultaneously. My research also includes actual membership figures for Hertfordshire taken from non-internet records that I have access to. Both of these factors were taken into account when producing the following figures for the county of Hertfordshire. They are broken down into totals of single males, single females and swinger couples. The grand total was 2700. The number of single males was 950. The number of single females 800 and the number of couples was 950. Any person or couple, reading these figures and thinking about experiencing swinger fun in Hertfordshire, should feel extremely positive about their chances of meeting up with plenty of other broadminded people, intent on enjoying all aspects of adult dating fun.The country house referred to earlier still runs regular parties for both singles and couples once a month on Friday and Saturday evenings. But it is by no means the only adult party club venue in Hertfordshire. There are several other well established ones, providing regular meeting places for adult dating and swinger parties throughout the county.In addition to these, Hertfordshire residents who enjoy the swinger lifestyle still like to provide ‘privately hosted parties’ at their own homes. Receiving invitations to them can prove difficult for newcomers but by joining the right adult dating site or swingers club and ensuring that your profile is a really attractive one, it will only be a matter of time before you start getting included in the private invitations.The secret is to get yourself really well known on the site or club you join. This will invariably require you to learn the etiquette of chat rooms and to spend time cultivating a respected presence in discussions. The problem for a lot of people is they think that signing up with an adult dating club and sitting back to wait for messages is all they need to do. Unfortunately successful adult dating is just like most other interpersonal activity; it requires ‘marketing skills’, determination, effort and a great deal of patience. Accept and apply this philosophy and you will have no difficulty in finding plenty of adult fun in Hertfordshire.
Dressing up is all about being the impossible. As an adult, this applies even more. Who says you’re too old to be a Cinderella princess? A Snow White princess doesn’t need to be in elementary school to make a statement at a costume party. Whatever it is you’ve always wanted to be, you can dress up as for Halloween or for a costume party. Adults who are “all grown up” still have many things that they’d like to dress up as. Don’t know where to start? Check out these popular adult costumes that are easily adaptable to personal flair.Whether you’re being Batman, Heath Ledger’s memorable Joker, or Hannah Montana, dressing like a movie star is a great conversation starter. These costumes are particularly great for costume parties, where you can feel comfortable in what you’re wearing and have a memorable ensemble.Make sure you pick the most memorable outfit from that movie character. For example, the Cinderella princess ball gown is easily recognizable, while her raggedy dress before the ball is not. Likewise, Spiderman’s costume is identifiable while the jeans and button-up shirts he wore were not. You’ll want to wear the most iconic of the outfits of the movie star of your choice. Some of the most popular adult costumes are: Transformers, Harry Potter characters, superheroes/comic book characters, Tinkerbell, Indiana Jones, and Jack Sparrow.If you’d like a princess costume for adults since you’re an adult now. That doesn’t mean that princess costumes adult are any less popular. A Snow White princess is seen at almost every adult costume party, as is a Cinderella princess. While there are costumes available for more modern princesses, like Princess Tiana or Princess Mulan, the Snow White princess and the Cinderella princess are closest to the adult generation’s heart because of the time periods these princesses came out. Even if you choose to create your own princess costume adult, it is sure to be a hit as it lets out your inner princess.Couples costumes are really exciting. These costumes are cute, humorous, or stunning, and always memorable. There are so many options for these types of costumes it’s hard to know where to begin. Humorous couple costumes include: ketchup and mustard, salt and pepper, Raggedy Ann and Andy, and bacon and eggs. It’s always cute when a couple dresses up like a famous couple, like Leonardo Di Caprio and Kate Winslet of Titanic, the Flintstone’s Wilma and Fred, and Sonny and Cher.Often couples will just dress in coordinating costumes, like magicians, rock n’ roll stars, renaissance people, or hippies. Whatever angle you choose, dressing up in a couples costume gives you the added confidence of having someone dressed similarly to you. Dressing up as an adult is a chance to let the inner child out. So pull out the princess costumes adult and the Transformers costumes. Adult costumes are an opportunity to be whatever you want except an adult for an entire night of fun.
Where can you find adult singles, all ready to fulfill all your wildest sexual fantasies? Well, resources abound out there for anything related to adult dating, from the toned-down to the wild and yes, twisted. You just have to know where to look.But what exactly are adult singles? The word “single” should be taken loosely here as there are certain activities in adult dating that actually involve married couples. And no, this is not about cheating, though it is present in online dating (both adult and non-adult) as in the rest of society.For example, adult alternative dating includes BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, S&M (sadomasochism), swinging, polyamory and other activities that may be considered fetish or not “normal” in a relationship. Of these, swinging and polyamory involve couples going out of wedlock with the full consent of one’s regular partner or spouse.The term “adult single” may also be taken to mean someone who is unattached and wants to remain that way even through a regular relationship. This is the type of person who is after encounters with no strings attached whether with the same partner, different partners at different times or multiple partners at the same time.Back to the question, where do you find adult singles? It is tempting to answer in one word, anywhere, but it is not that simple. Why?As observed, different people have different needs and interests, even in adult dating. You can find adult singles in bars and clubs (including adult clubs) but this is often a hit or miss mission. The best thing is to go where adults seeking other adults for encounters go.That place is adult personals sites. But before you run of to sign up with one, you should first try to find out what you really want. This is because even adult dating sites differ in the types of interests they serve.There are general adult dating sites which serve those interested in encounters. These can either be toned-down where complete nudity is not allowed or risque, where full nudity virtually anything is allowed. These are the places you will find the greatest number of adult singles from all walks of life seeking one-night stands, escapades and encounters of the adult genre.But for those who want something beyond what is considered “normal” proceed to alternative and fetish dating services. This is where you will find adult singles seeking BDSM, S&M, cross-dressing, lingerie personals, transsexuals, bondage, spanking and virtually anything you can imagine.The type of dating site matters a lot if quality adult relationships are important to you. As much as possible do avoid free sites as you will have to weed through lots of curiosity seekers and pranksters. Always go for reputable sites. And have fun!